I have been trying to write something to all of you for many days now, however whenever I attempt to-I stop. There is nothing new for me to tell regarding our beautiful Blair except that I believe he is trying really hard to make sense of all this, while also healing his body. So we wait. Giving him whatever time he needs.
Each day brings different emotions for me. One day so much hope, other days despair. But the one thing that remains constant is the blanket of love that I feel surrounding our family with all your thoughts and prayers and strong belief in miracles. I so badly believe in the power of love but some days it is hard to hold that belief and all of your words help me to do just that.
I am sorry that I cannot talk to each of you individually to thank you for all that you have done so far: the food, the kind words, the shoulder to cry on. Please know that I speak to you directly with this note.
Thank you. Keep up the praying, the meditating, the sending of white light or whatever you do to help Blair in this journey.
Love Gina, Annabel and Cole
Dear Gina, thanks for checking in (in words). I think about 500 of us check this blog at least once a day, not really expecting news, just as another way to commune with you, and with beautiful Blair, and all the family and wide, wide extension of family who are taking these roads with you. It's a boost to hear your voice. And in the days when you don't write, we still all hear you, and send you all love with prayers and meditation and goofy thoughts (even now) and good thoughts and beyond thoughts. We are all around you guys. We love you.
Posted by: karen dreyfuss | August 17, 2009 at 09:34 PM
Dear Gina, sometimes there are just no words to describe our feelings. Just stay strong for Annabel, Cole and yourself. I know that Blair is doing all he can to try to come back to his beautiful family. I know it is hard to have hope and then despair. It takes so much out of you. Just hang in there for now. That is all you can do. Oliver and I will continue to keep you and your family in our prayers.
Take care,
Richarda & Oliver
Posted by: Richarda Logacz | August 17, 2009 at 10:42 PM
It is enough to wait. We will all continue to do so. And we shall continue to send all of our collective healing energy and care to Blair and your family. The sun shines daily and waits as well.
Blair, simply conserve your energy and remember this is a marathon not a sprint.
Let there be monumental healing and strides made in their proper time.
Strength and love to you all as you navigate your way through the twists and turns called life.
Posted by: Terry Michaels | August 18, 2009 at 12:04 AM
Gina, thank you for your words.
karen is right, so many of us check this blog not for an update as much as for a way of communing with you and feeling close to those who love blair.
only my math is different- instead of 500 folks checking this blog once a day- i am that one loon that checks the blog 500 times a day. please know that with every click on "thisblairdaily" - and even more often than that- i am thinking of blair and of you all.
love love love, baret
Posted by: baret | August 18, 2009 at 07:21 AM
Gina, just wanted to make sure you got my previous e-mail that our house near UCLA is yours. Whenever you want to come by fora quick rest stop, a sleep over (you and/or the kids), or whatever else it may be that would help. Much love to you all. Yael, Danny and Edan
Posted by: Yael and Danny | August 18, 2009 at 08:14 AM
Gina, I woke up around 3am, early Monday morning, and couldn't stop thinking about Blair. I thought, if we at RPA could come together and pray/meditate as a group, we could help with the miracle... Well, a group of us met yesterday afternoon, and the love was there. I know, in my heart, that Blair felt our love and support. And now I want to make sure you do too! I am sending you strength and love to get through this as Blair heals. Big hugs!
Posted by: Erin | August 18, 2009 at 08:56 AM
Gina- big, big hug to you. Sending strength, love, and frienship your way.
Posted by: ~paulaz | August 18, 2009 at 10:42 AM
Gina, thank you for posting your message. I check this blog rather obsessively since Blair is in my thoughts so much.
I can't imagine the roller coaster of emotions you and your family have been dealing with, but my prayers are with you all and of course with Blair.
Posted by: Elaine | August 18, 2009 at 10:58 AM
Like all of your dear friends, our day also begins wanting to know how Blair is and always wanting him to rally and be strong again...prayers and a flow of love pour forth.. The Bearmans
Posted by: Dorothy Bearman | August 18, 2009 at 11:22 AM
So good to hear from you! Wait we will, with hope, wishes, prayers and good vibrations all headed your direction. You are doing just what Blair and the kids need you to do, and that is good. Please remember to take care of yourself too. We are here for you, know that.
Love, Susan, Clay, Harper, Sawyer and Holden
Posted by: Susan | August 18, 2009 at 01:10 PM
Dear Gina, I have not yet had the pleasure of meeting you or the rest of Blair's family (except for the delightful Alan via RPA!) but I feel connected to you all the same. Blair is a wonderful person, a true friend with a generous spirit and a zest for life. I shall keep him close in my thoughts.
Posted by: Louise Wainwright | August 18, 2009 at 01:41 PM
Come on Blair!!
Posted by: casey | August 18, 2009 at 02:39 PM
It's hard to find the right words. I can't think, I can only feel. I too like everyone else, am constantly thinking about you guys, constantly checking this blog, am still amazed at the outpouring of love from SO many people...a love that connects us all.
Los quiero
Posted by: Aileen Salmaggi | August 18, 2009 at 02:46 PM
Gina, I love you all. We will all have to keep praying, meditating, and sending our love. Hopefully on the hard days it will hold you up, while we wait for our miracle. Big bear hug you, Monkey, and Cole- keli
Posted by: keli | August 18, 2009 at 04:47 PM
Gina...Despite the years, the time gone by and the distance, what has happened to Blair and your family hits me where it hurts. David and I send our love to you. I can't imagine how hard this is on you and your kids. We support you from afar. Everyday, in my moment of silence, I send Blair healing white light. And I send you strength to deal with all that you have to deal with right now. Much love. Jen
Posted by: Jennifer Mackay | August 18, 2009 at 06:11 PM
We think of you every day- many times a day. We send you lots of good energy and hope. Hang in there.
Posted by: Rebecca Constantino | August 18, 2009 at 07:38 PM
My thoughts are with you every day. Sending all of my love.
Posted by: Louis Anderman | August 18, 2009 at 07:58 PM
Thanks for your love Gina. It helps us, to give you, Blair, Annabelle and Cole our love. And to give our love to all of us, who are here, being with you and your family. Oh, you are all on our minds, in our hearts, every day, all the time.
Posted by: Chris Danes | August 18, 2009 at 08:44 PM
I admit that David and I check the blog obsessively, hoping for some news, and in awe of the fact that you and Alan still find the time and the spirit to keep us all posted, which is incredibly generous on both your parts. We are sending so much love your way... and hope, and prayers, and positive thoughts. You are a strong and beautiful woman, Gina. I'm sure Blair is so grateful to have you at his side every day, just as he was before this all happened. Alan, you know that whatever you need, David and I are there for you. Loads of love to you all.
Posted by: Susana Fattorini (Mora) | August 18, 2009 at 09:43 PM
Gina, thank you so much for connecting with us. I, too, check this blog frequently throughout the day. Blair is in my thoughts so much of the day and of course you, Annabel and Cole. I just love you all so much. Ruby wants Annabel to feel her hugs she said. You are one of the strongest families I know. You have all been such a source of inspiration in right living and such a demonstration of love. Our prayers our endless for a perfect healing and that we all may hear his sweet voice soon. With love, Jaymie, David, Ruby and Sam
Posted by: Jaymie Homan | August 18, 2009 at 10:12 PM
I am praying for you daily, hourly and inviting others to join me. I truly believe in the power of prayer as it healed my sister of terminal stage IV cancer. My other sister died suddenly of an aneurism but in the process I contacted a world renowned brain surgeon Dr. Black of Beverly Hills, a friend of a friend. Would it be helpful to seek his advice at this point? I trust you have all the medical support you desire but I am happy to recruit him if you want. I love you. We all love your whole family. We pray for a miracle. Bless you.
Posted by: Ann Polhemus | August 19, 2009 at 12:27 AM
Dear Gina, we know how hard it must be, and appreciate so much of your update.
Please take care, we will continue to pray, and sending our love to his and yor way
Posted by: Chaoying | August 19, 2009 at 01:31 AM
Gina, Blair and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers constantly.
Posted by: Andrew Denyer | August 19, 2009 at 01:41 AM
Thank you so much for your words, Gina. Constantly thinking about you over here, constantly wishing for Blair's continuing healing. This little patch in the blanket of love sends you all muchos, muchos abrazos.
Claudia, Anna, GoGo and Jon
Posted by: Claudia | August 19, 2009 at 07:31 AM
Dear Blair, Gina, Annabele and Cole,
I am sending prayers and light from here in the wilds of Oklahoma. Have kept up on you through Miss Margie and MD. Please be uplifted in healing spirit and know that hundreds of friends are thinking of you all with love and peace. LV>M.
Posted by: Monica De Vargas | August 19, 2009 at 09:21 AM
Blair,
I want you to know that you and your family are in my constant prayers. We miss you and look forward to the day when we can be with you again.
Tom Kirk
Posted by: Tom Kirk | August 19, 2009 at 09:35 AM
More healing energy, love and support being sent. May the miracles start to show themselves.
Posted by: Terry Michaels | August 19, 2009 at 12:55 PM
Add me to the list of obsessive blog-checkers, prayer-sayers and miracle-believers. To know the Renshaws is to love the Renshaws. Hang in there.
Posted by: Chris Angelli | August 19, 2009 at 05:06 PM
Another blog checker here! Much love and continued prayer for Blair's healing and strength, comfort and hope for your beautiful family.
Posted by: Lori Orum | August 19, 2009 at 05:41 PM
You got it Gina. Loads of healing love and light coming from here from our family to every member of yours. Please take care of yourself as best you can through all this. We're thinking of you.
Posted by: Lynn, Clyde and Aspen | August 19, 2009 at 05:51 PM
Dear Gina, Annabel, and Cole
We're back home and just learned the updated news, and are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers for Blair's healing. Stay strong. We love you all very much.
Silas, Sofia, Carmella, and Larry
Posted by: Larry George | August 19, 2009 at 06:03 PM
Love to you.
Posted by: karen dreyfuss | August 19, 2009 at 07:29 PM
Blair,
My thoughts are with you and your family. Sending you all the positive energy I have to help you recover.
much love.
Shelley
Posted by: Shelley Eisner | August 19, 2009 at 08:28 PM
Dear Blair, Gina, Annabel and Cole:
We are constantly thinking of all of you and praying for Blair's healing. Please call us for whatever you need!
All our love.
Muchos abrazos,
Gastón, Tammis, Amancai and Matías
Posted by: Gastón and Tammis Biraben | August 19, 2009 at 09:27 PM
Gina- Sending lots of love and peace to you, Blair and the kids. I got the strongest feeling of hope reading all of the posts from all that love your family. So much love.
Posted by: Nancy, Peter, Gus and Nell | August 19, 2009 at 10:34 PM
Dear Blair,Gina, Annabel and Cole
I'm praying,thinking and feeling very positively for your family to be together at home again.
Love.
Camila.
Posted by: Camila Arnold | August 20, 2009 at 12:52 AM
Stay strong, Gina, stay strong. Your family needs you. Stay strong. Your family needs you. Stay strong. I could go on, but I'll stop here. You won't know any of the reasons for this and why you have to be so damned strong when you're not feeling it, but the fact is, you must remain so. Life itself will put things in order, so there is no reason to do anything but what your're doing and to stay strong. We all love and adore Blair and hope and pray for his complete recovery.
Posted by: Charlene | August 20, 2009 at 09:16 AM
we love you and you're all in our thoughts every moment x x s and j x x x x
Posted by: susanna young | August 20, 2009 at 02:16 PM
I am thinking of Blair throughout the day, every day, and sending calm healing thoughts. I am thinking of you, Gina, and hope you are able to let your mind relax and rest during this time. Take care of yourself as well as all of the care you are giving Blair and your children. Love and BIG Hugs to you.
Love,
~Andrea & Gus
Posted by: Andrea Harmon | August 20, 2009 at 04:07 PM
As Erin mentioned, a group of us at RPA got together and meditated/prayed for Blair. And afterwards, we shared "Blair moments," times that have brought smiles to our faces. Here's one of mine. When our 500-employee office moved to Colorado Ave., Blair had the daunting task of getting everyone transitioned. And what did I do? I went to him, and lamented the fact that I could no longer put a snowman image on the top of all my e-mails (which I'd been able to do with our previous e-mail system). The little snowman had the words "Seasons Greetings" above him, and irked some people (especially in the summer), which held a certain appeal to me. Well, Blair just smiled, and assured me he'd "get right on it." Blair, thank you for your kindness and patience. Your unflappable demeanor is very much missed!
Posted by: Andrea Drever | August 20, 2009 at 04:50 PM
While decades separate face-to-face conversations- the immediacy of the Blair's situation is profound. I continue to pray/meditate daily that the miracle of healing and restoration find each of you and especially Blair.
My family sends love and light and each day as I run through the redwoods- I meditate on each footfall to channel the great energy of those trees into healing.
Warmly-n
Posted by: nancy netherland | August 20, 2009 at 05:07 PM
gina ... i send you and blair strength daily ... your family is in my thoughts and prayers 24/7 ... there are no words ... if you need a shoulder to cry or laugh or yell on, i'm here ... xoxo - grace
Posted by: grace benn | August 20, 2009 at 05:23 PM
Gina- Thank you for keeping us all informed. You and your family are in my daily thoughts/prayers/miracle requests.
Posted by: Casey | August 20, 2009 at 06:00 PM
Dear Blair, Jeannine, Alan and Gina, Annabel and Cole,
It has been a long time since I have seen any of the Renshaws, but you, especially Blair and Jeannine were such an important and special part of my life, through our years growing up together at SMASH, with our tight knit group of friends, we were like a family (and that has always remained with me). I am sorry that we have lost touch over the years, as I miss you and think about you often. I can't wait to see Blair pull through this difficult time and be able to spend some time together again. And I would like to meet you, Gina and Blair's children--you sound like a very special and loving family. I check up on Blair at least once a day and usually more often (through this blog). All my positive thoughts and energy are directed your way. Please let me know if there is any way I can help out. Love, Sara
Posted by: Sara Wasserstrom | August 20, 2009 at 06:34 PM
“Every blade of grass has its angel that bends over it and whispers, 'Grow, grow.'”
Blair, you have many, many angels, and we are all whispering for you to heal, heal...
Posted by: Monika McClure | August 20, 2009 at 07:48 PM
Love, love, and more love to all of you!
Posted by: Simone | August 20, 2009 at 08:08 PM
More prayers, more meditations, each day your circle expands. as people who love the people who love you pass it on: love to Blair and the family, strength and support and breath and power being focused and shared and directed to you. Blair, Gina, kids, Alan, JER, you are touching a thousand hearts. I hope you feel them touching you.
Posted by: karen dreyfuss | August 20, 2009 at 09:05 PM
Thinking of you all the time. With love, the Tungs.
Posted by: Amanda Tung | August 20, 2009 at 10:04 PM
I do believe the miracles of healing are beginning to take root. In our resting moments the most healing takes place. May Blair get as much rest as needed, may the family get as much love and warmth as needed.
Sending more and more healing energy.
Posted by: Terry Michaels | August 21, 2009 at 10:38 AM
Gina,
Roseanne and I send you, Blair, and the kids our love and prayers. Please know that you are in our hearts and thoughts everyday.
Also, you may see a rather strange color to the 'white light' you mention; your extended family in Scotland (my family) are praying too, so the light maybe tartan (plaid)!
With hope and love,
Chris and Roseanne.
Posted by: Chris & Ro | August 21, 2009 at 12:14 PM
Hi You Guys--Just piping up to let you know I am thinking of you today and every day (as clearly are legions of devoted and wonderful people who care so deeply for you). I'm sending out daily requests for healing, recovery and comfort for your beautiful family. Huge love from over the many years and across the miles-Lynne Rose
Posted by: Lynne Rose | August 21, 2009 at 06:36 PM
sending you love. sending you strength. sending you tenderness. sending you a world, no, a galaxy aw fuck that, the ever expanding universe of hope. know that we love you all, and think about you all constantly.
Posted by: eileen dorn | August 21, 2009 at 06:56 PM
Dear Renshaw family, just like everyone here, every day I think of you guys and every night I beg God to heal Blair. My family went through a similar experience not too long ago. I can imagine the frustration and fear you're going through. After what seemed like an eternity, my cousin finally came through and is back to his regular old self. I have faith that the same will hold true with Blair. Until then, you will be in my prayers.
Posted by: Ferdie | August 21, 2009 at 09:56 PM
I just got the word today, such a shame that I have been out of touch so long---Gina and Blair my love is with you. Be strong.
Posted by: chris grabowski | August 22, 2009 at 09:14 AM
Dear Gina and Blair and family,
Across the miles -- and the many, many years -- sending streams of love and strength in your direction.
xxoo Sabrina (Santa Cruz)
Posted by: Sabrina Eastwood | August 22, 2009 at 10:23 AM
Gina, Blair & kids, still thinking of you all and praying for that miracle.
All my love from Northeast..Karen
Posted by: Karen Smith | August 22, 2009 at 05:59 PM
my thoughts were with you all day today. i pray for the strength of your family during this time of need. words can't express how sympathetic and compassionate i am to this situation. if anything, this has reminded me to realize what it is i do have, the gift of life and love and to never take it for granted. i continue to pray for you and yours.
i also wanted to say that annabel's improvement in my class over the summer and especially during the workshop is amazing!!!! she is turning into such a beautiful expressive, and attentive artist right before my very eyes. i am so happy to be apart of her growth. she seriously is going to be a major force to be reckoned with in the arts if she keeps this growth up. it's very exciting to see and be apart of it all.
all my love, respect and support....
Posted by: Asha di Ningrat | August 23, 2009 at 12:51 AM
May the sunlight and waves of healing energy continue to perform magic and provide comfort.
Be well Renshaw family, I cannot begin to imagine what you are dealing with day to day.
Posted by: Terry Michaels | August 23, 2009 at 11:08 AM
Dear Blair, Gina, Annabele and Cole,
Please know that we are thinking about you all the time and sending you all the love, prayers, thoughts and energy that we can.
Love,
Jim, Abby and Eliza
Posted by: Jim Bernstein | August 23, 2009 at 12:17 PM
We are hoping and praying with all our hearts for Blair and the family to feel this prayer of love as strength and support during this time....that it opens a portal for miricles to pass, and that every day give us occation to cherish Blair.
Posted by: Lisa Pool-Osorio | August 23, 2009 at 02:57 PM
Thinking of you all this evening. *big hugs*
Posted by: ~paulaz | August 23, 2009 at 09:00 PM
Sending you all love. A little something on JR's doorstep this evening. A lot of love and powerful thoughts and energy on all the wavelengths. The circle keeps expanding and all of us are with you.
Posted by: Karen Dreyfuss | August 24, 2009 at 12:08 PM
It's the start of another week, and another wave of happiness and good cheer! Wishing and hoping from Louise
Posted by: Louise Wainwright | August 24, 2009 at 01:58 PM
i am only figuring out how to comment here, so please know that i have been sending every prayer to your family. I am heartbroken, but will remain waiting for anything close to a miracle. Please know that many people who have never met Blair are sending their thoughts and prayers. All my every bit of energy... Amy Kane
Posted by: amy kane | August 24, 2009 at 02:24 PM
The absence of words is an opportunity to channel all the love and light being sent your way - to take it all in, let soak and rinse away your fears and despair. Let our love warm and guide you in this extremely bumpy road, which we call Life's Journey. But KNOW, not simply believe, that you will get through this and that when Blair has healed enough to join us for the rest of the trip, that we will continue to be here, for the rest of the Ride.
Cotinuing to send you love and light every second of every day...
Posted by: NiK | August 24, 2009 at 02:40 PM
Dear Gina, Anabel and Cole,
We have just recently found out about Blair and feel just awful. Words definitely cannot explain what sadness we feel and our hearts cannot help but go out to you and Blair. We had the privilege to spend a few hours during Carlos' bday party in June at the beach, and it really was the first time I had met Blair and he was just fab! We had a blast as did the kids. Randy, Jordan, Carlos and I send you all a hug and our prayers. Blair will be on our minds and in our hearts, hoping for a prayer in the belief that he will heal and return to his beautiful family that love him so.
With lots of love and always here for you in any way we can,
Delia Lopez and Randy Keen (Edison families)
Posted by: Delia Lopez | August 24, 2009 at 03:57 PM
Dear Blair, almost every night I wake up, late in the night, with you in my heart. Just wanted to let you know that when I wake up I send you a hug and a wish that you open your eyes and smile.
Continued love and positive energy, my friend.
Posted by: Erin | August 24, 2009 at 04:09 PM
You're in my thoughts and prayers. Every day. Every moment.
Posted by: Andrea Drever | August 24, 2009 at 04:34 PM
When we were kids (I know, still are) we used to go down to the beach and boogie board. Whether we caught even the slightest bit of time in the tube or got creamed, we'd paddle out to wait for the next one. More than 30 years later, I can still see that Blair grin. I'm waiting Blair for you to pop back up to the surface with that smile on your face so we can ride the next set. Let's go!
Posted by: Richard Gabriel (Richy) | August 24, 2009 at 05:26 PM
Gina,
I just spoke with Andrew Mersmann and he told me about Blair. I didn't know about any of this. I don't know what to say or do. I so want to be there for you and your kids....if there is anything I can do if anyone reading this knows what Gina needs PLEASE let me know. I am praying hard for Blairs recovery and for you and the kids.
All my love...Marilyn
Posted by: Marilyn Mclaughhlin | August 24, 2009 at 08:21 PM
Dear Gina,
I just wanted to send my love to you and Blair, Annabel, and Cole. I miss you guys and I am praying for Blair everyday. Please let me know if I can help you with anything in any way.
love always,
Joanne
Posted by: Joanne Wu | August 24, 2009 at 10:02 PM
Dear Gina,
My love goes out to you and Annabel and Cole and all of Blair's family. And to Blair, I hold you in my heart with love and light and the strongest of healing energy.
love, Judy Accardi
Posted by: Judy Accardi | August 24, 2009 at 10:23 PM
Miracles happen by day and they happen by night. It is late and I believe in miracles.
Peace and comfort being sent at all hours of the day and the night.
Posted by: Terry Michaels | August 24, 2009 at 10:41 PM
Here is a quote I'd like to share: "The substance, life, intelligence, truth and love which constitute god are reflected by his creation. God fashions all things after his own likeness. Life is reflected in existence, truth in truthfulness, god in goodness, which impart their own peace and permanence."
Holding strong to this and other positive thoughts for Blair.
Posted by: Joby | August 25, 2009 at 09:01 AM
You have friends in some very cool places. Geographically and otherwise. All sending so much love and strength, wishing you strength and comfort. Me too.
Posted by: Karen Dreyfuss | August 25, 2009 at 03:12 PM
Dear Gina, Anabel and Cole,
Just heard about Blair via Jeannine via my husband Brian. We've been out of town but I've been reading the entire site little by little each day. I just got to the last post.
I'm not sure you remember us, but we know your family through Jeannine and John. Our son Owen goes to school with Riley. I also know Blair from freelancing at RPA.
I wanted to tell you that on the plane home, I fell asleep and had a dream about Blair. He was telling me now much he disliked the last campaign I art directed and that I should try harder. Then he laughed and said how much he liked it. He was just kidding. I'll hang onto my dream of him laughing at his own joke. We send hope, love and good positive thoughts for all of you.
Posted by: Susan Alinsangan | August 25, 2009 at 04:12 PM
I remember Blair and his sister Jeannine from long ago, and though we haven't been in touch much over the years I have been sending all my love and healing thoughts your way over these last weeks. Recently I've been having dreams where both he and Jeannine are happy, healthy and doing great. I'll continue wishing and sending love and reading this blog 'til I hear that he's that way in real life again.
Much love,
Milya (Milja Eekman)
Posted by: Milya Jacobson | August 25, 2009 at 05:29 PM
Hey guys, I don't know if you already use it or are so well-covered you don't need it, but there's a site called lotsahelpinghands.com where you can set out what kind of help actually would help, and friends can sign up to fit your needs. It just takes one main person to coordinate communication. Heaven knows we'd all like to lend our hands.
Posted by: Karen Dreyfuss | August 25, 2009 at 09:00 PM
Gina, Marilyn told me about Blair and sent me the link to this blog. I'm so shocked and saddened, but we are all thinking of you and Blair and the kids and sending our love and hope and prayers your way. A great photo of Blair wearing big sunglasses and an even bigger smile (taken at our UCLA graduation) still graces our wall, and when I see that smile, I know his strong, loving spirit is fighting with everything he has right now. I love you so much and am here for you always.
Posted by: Christi Hagemann | August 26, 2009 at 08:42 AM
Thinking of you constantly. Good wishes and love.
Posted by: Julie Boston | August 26, 2009 at 04:38 PM
Blair and family,
Sending you healing energy and love.
You are in my thoughts and prayers all of the time.
KB
Posted by: Karen B | August 26, 2009 at 09:29 PM
Checking in to see if there's any news. I will stick with the 'no news is good news' adage.
Healing takes a lot longer than we can imagine, and when waiting, a minute feels like an eternity. In due time, in due time.
Healing, strength and comfort to all.
Posted by: Terry Michaels | August 27, 2009 at 12:55 PM
Still thinking about your recovery on a daily basis. Hang in there Renshaws.
Posted by: Elaine | August 27, 2009 at 06:24 PM
Same as elaine, same as everyone who checks this blog once or twice a day, willing to wait as long as it takes, sending you love and love and love.
Posted by: Karen Dreyfuss | August 27, 2009 at 09:54 PM
Same from me - hang in there!
Posted by: Jim Dreyfuss | August 28, 2009 at 10:04 AM
Since this happened, I've been spending quite a bit of time researching the brain. I'm trying to understand what Blair has gone through, and what he might possibly be experiencing. I found something I wanted to share with you. It was written by a man named Joseph Boysis, who was in a coma for six weeks. He wrote: "If you know anyone who is in a coma or is unresponsive physically, talk to them. They can hear you. They may not understand what you are saying, but they will recognize your voice tone. I did." I hope you don't mind my sharing that with you. As always, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Andrea Drever | August 28, 2009 at 10:18 AM
I started my very first square foot garden today. As I planted seeds and gently watered them I found myself awestruck at the brilliant way these little hard seed will become vegetables for my enjoyment and nourishment. I had to remind myself that growing a garden from seeds will take longer (substantially longer) than if I'd simply purchased plants and transplanted them. I vowed to be abundantly patient.
Then I got to thinking about Blair, and where he is today, and realized that just like my little 8 square feet of garden, that his 'growth' and 'sprouting' will also take time. Again, I vowed to be abundantly patient.
I have officially dedicated my 8 square feet to Blair, his wife, and his children (and all those who love him, near and far).
Posted by: Terry Michaels | August 28, 2009 at 05:17 PM
Keeping the faith, as I know we all are.
Posted by: Pete | August 29, 2009 at 08:43 AM
Dear Gina, Blair and Family,
Peter told me about the prayer ceremony and I'm sorry I wasn't able to be there in person. Blair's photo has been blessed by Amma - Mata Amritanandamayi. Sending many prayers and much love, Alison Richards
Posted by: alison richards | August 29, 2009 at 12:48 PM
Thinking of all of you so much right now and sending love and hope for Blair's healing and for your family to have the strength and support to continue on. When I think of Blair, my heart warms with his smile and his warmth and friendliness always.
Posted by: Judy Accardi | August 29, 2009 at 10:59 PM
Gina,
I just heard about Blair and I have chills writing this message. I am so sorry and sad to hear about the events. Having read the comments from you and family & friends, the support and "blanket of love" you feel is real. Stay strong.
Charlene
Posted by: The Mayo Family | August 30, 2009 at 07:44 AM
Blair and Family,
While I have not yet written on this blog, I have been checking daily (sometimes twice a day). I too have been praying to God, reinforcing that Blair needs a miracle. Blair is such a special person. I can't help but believe that with all the positive thoughts and energy Blair has behind him, that our prayers will be answered and he will wake up soon. In the meantime, I'll keep praying.
Posted by: Marie Z. | August 30, 2009 at 09:09 AM
I woke this morning thinking about healing of all kinds, and how it takes time (healing feelings, healing injuries, etc.).
In April 2008 I was bitten by a dog (through my jeans no less) that left a large gash in my leg. While the gash has closed up, the injured area remains. I have a large and permanent scar. But I looked at it this morning and it is less noticeable than it was earlier this year. Apparently over time it continues to heal without my being aware.
It is my sincere hope, that without any of us being aware, that Blair's body is also healing and will continue to do so over time, and that at one point all will look back at this time and simply marvel at the great and powerful ability of the body, mind and spirit to heal and forge ahead.
May there be additional love and caring for Blair, his wife, and his precious children. May the toll this most certainly must be taking on them be lessened each and every day.
Posted by: Terry Michaels | August 30, 2009 at 10:22 AM
Continuing to pray for your strength and courage during this difficult and uncertain time.
Posted by: Lisa Stessman | August 30, 2009 at 01:38 PM
Sending warm hugs, happy thoughts, unlimited support, and whatever else I can muster to get you all through this!
Posted by: Louise Wainwright | August 30, 2009 at 04:40 PM
Writing less, think of you more if that's possible. Sending love.
Posted by: Karen Dreyfuss | August 30, 2009 at 09:40 PM
I just got back from a week in Cuyamaca Mountains with Gus and my parents. We went on some early morning hikes and sent out healing thoughts to Blair when we reached the top of the mountain. We are thinking of you all throughout EVERY day. Thank you to the Renshaws for putting this site together so we all have to place to check on Blair without bothering you. All our love,
~Andrea, Gus, Peggy & Wayne
Posted by: Andrea Harmon | August 30, 2009 at 09:47 PM
Hoping and praying for the best. You are in our thoughts. Love, Jim, Abby and Eliza
Posted by: Jim Bernstein | August 31, 2009 at 08:16 AM
Peace and better health on a daily basis being sent your way.
Posted by: Terry Michaels | August 31, 2009 at 06:34 PM
Thinking of you all the time. Hoping, praying, wishing, and sending out everything I can... Please get well soon.
Posted by: Joe C | August 31, 2009 at 09:57 PM