Miracle: An effect or extraordinary event in the physical world that surpasses all known human or natural powers.

(written by Jeannine)
Last night we said goodbye to our sweet, beautiful Blair.  He left this world as he lived it, with grace and peace, surrounded by the family and extended family he cherished.  We all prayed for a miracle, and I believe Blair’s life was that miracle.   
 
His genuine and deep kindness, the unconditional love he showed his friends and family, the joy and humor with which he met each day, even in the toughest of times, touched everyone who knew him.   His life was an extraordinary event.  And yet we’re so sad. 
 

The depth of this loss is unfathomable.   It makes words hard to find.  But we’re so thankful to all of you, and in the next few days we’ll let those who have been reaching out know how you can help.   In the meantime, please know how much your loving words, prayers and thoughts have meant to us and to Blair these past six weeks.

With  love from Blair's family, Gina, Annabel, Cole, sister Jeanine, brother-in-law John, nephew Riley, nieces Violet and Mackenzie, brother Alan and his fiancee Molly, father and stepmother, Ren and Kathy and mother, Jean.
 

Comments

[Amanda Tung]

We are sending a great, big, warm hug to share with all of you.

[Mindy]

Gina -
I am so sorry for your loss. The only memories I have of Blair are good ones. From the moment he gave me a reassuring smile as a newbie at work, I knew he was a truly honest and caring guy.

If there's anything I can do, please let me know.

Mindy

[nancy netherland]

Renshaws, Gina, Cole and Annabel: I am so sorry for your loss - I knew Blair as a very young woman and he left an indelible mark on my spirit and path and I consider those days and years shared in Santa Cruz and beyond golden and filled with much light and grace because of Blair.

With much love- nancy

[Sarah Mages]

Every day I checked this blog in fear and hope that I wouldn't find a message just like this one. My heart goes out to all of you. Blair was great in college, and from all the amazing messages left here, it sounds like he just got better with age. I know he will be missed terribly.

[alyse z.]

Like Sarah, I checked this blog at least twice a day -- first thing in the morning, and at the end of the day. (And sometimes a few times in between.) I am stunned and so very saddened by this news. Blair was a very special person, and all of us who knew and cared about him are very lucky. I am so very sorry.

[Pete]

So very sorry. Blair was a person I loved to be with and respected tremendously. He had a true joy for life and a passion in all he did. As a friend from work I can tell you that I never knew a man who loved his family more. You are constantly in his thoughts.

[Ren Klyce]

Dear Gina,
Last night there was an owl perched in our cypress tree. It made a beautiful sound... calling out... looking for it's mate. Then, from another tree in the distance, another owl cried back.

I thought of you Gina, and of Blair, and I knew Blair's spirit was free.

I have been checking this blog every day, and have been reaching out to all our Santa Cruz Banana Slug friend I could find.

I will miss Blair terribly. Alan, thank you for keeping my spirits up. Such a wonderful family you all are.

All of my Love, Ren

[Joe C]

My heart is so heavy with sorrow. I always thought I'd see this man, come tomorrow. My love and prayers go out to Gina and all family. All of the friends of Blair knew that his soul was so lovely. I don't know what else to say. All I can do is lay here and pray. All that he loved and all that he did. For all of his wisdom that lives through others, I will place my highest bid.

Love you always,

Joe

[Karen B]

Gina, Anabel and Cole.
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my father when I was nearly 10 years old, so I understand what you are feeling. You have an amazing, strong, loving Mom. You can lean on her, she is strong. Think of all of the wonderful memories of your most amazing Dad. He was truely a one of a kind. I am honored to know him. Please know I am here in what ever capacity you need me.
Much Love,
Karen

[Ferdie]

I am completely numb right now and can't imagine what you and your family must be feeling. For now all I can express is my deepest condolences. I will continue to hold you all in my thoughts and prayers.

[tr]

My deepest condolences to all your family.
The other day as I searched for something on my computer, I came across the picture of Blair in his blue monster costume from a few years ago and I broke down and cried. He will always be remembered by me as one of my favorite people ever. So good at his job and yet always ready to laugh, even at himself. That's why he is so loved by so many and always will be.

[Susan]

Thank you for your beautiful letter, Jeannie. We, as a family are so very sorry. Yes, Blair's life was indeed a miracle. He was the person I strive to be. I knew him to be willing and wanting to help anyone who needed him. I knew him to take care of my good friend, Gina. I knew him to be an amazing parent to Annabel and Cole, documenting their lives almost daily - what a priceless gift for him to have left for them. He was always present. If Gina couldn't be somewhere for the kids, I could bet that Blair would be. Whether it was dropping the kids at school, being there to attend an all day field trip, showing up at AYSO practice, at SMC for free swim, or simply going to and from home and school to make sure that Annabel had her instrument, or Cole had his "lovey" for pajama day. Clay and I will miss his presence on a daily basis - as will Harper, Sawyer and Holden - who over the last 10 years had grown to trust Blair on every level.

Know that we love all of you, and you will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.

Susan

[Jenny Jedeikin]

Thank you for sharing the sad news about Blair. I was friends with Blair when he first came to UCSC and although it was a brief friendship, I still remember how much "fun" he was to be with and the essence of who he is lingers and remans. I can't imagine what you are all going through; I can only hope you will all continue to experience Blair as a powerful loving force in your lives as you all continue to live and grow.

[Adam]

I can't even come up with words to express my shock and sorrow. This is a harsh reminder of how precious life is, and the importance of dedicating myself to love, caring and kindness- the way Blair led his life every day I knew him. My deepest condolences.

[Carmen Lam]

My condolences to the family. Here's a man that made a difference in the lives of his family and friends. You will be missed Blair.

[Carrie T]

It's rare that we are blessed with a presence like Blair's. He was special in all the expected ways of an angel; generous, kind, forgiving, and patient. But he also carried that wry wit, that sarcastic grin, that sparkle that made him different, mischievous and no doubt, better than most of us. I cannot believe he's gone. The world is a dimmer place tonight because we lost him,

my love and prayers to you and your family.
Love,
Carrie

[Clay]

In my mind and heart Blair will forever be smiling back at us with that wide, crooked grin of his. And his spirit will forever remain a sly reminder to always be fully present and kind.

"And in the end the love you take is equal to the love you make."

God bless you Blair and God bless your family.

[db]

My condolences, thoughts and prayers. I feel lucky to have known this miracle; Blair connected with everyone, he was truly salt of the earth.

[Scott Tipton]

I started going to the gym to work out every night after work about eight months ago, and every night I'd come back to my office to pick up my stuff, and there Blair would be in the office next to mine, still working. About four months in, someone else made a comment about my leaving one day, and I heard Blair say, "Tipton's been working out every day for months. I'm proud of him."

It was the last thing I expected, and my heart swelled a little. Blair was proud of me.

After that, when I'd come back to the office every night, just out of habit, I'd look into Blair's office, and without fail, he'd shoot me a nod. As if to say, "well done."

Blair was like gravity. He held the place together, and yet we all took it for granted. But that's the thing about seemingly commonplace miracles like gravity, and our friend Blair: they're always there for you, whether you realize it or not.

My deepest condolences to Blair's family and close friends, all those who were privileged enough to know him so much better than I did.

Blair was proud of me. That's all right.

[meridee]

I don't want to believe this is true. I am so sad for Blair's family and for all of us who are experiencing this tremendous loss. He was truly one of the finest people I have ever known and may ever know.

[Pramit]

My condolences and deepest love for the Renshaws and Blair's inner circle in this rough time.

I don't have a succinct story like Scott T's- I have many little ones that are in their own regard every bit as memorable and that's what made Blair the loved chap he is. I will miss him, his 8-ish words of Hindi (Blair trivia: he spent a bunch of years in New Delhi and could rattle off the filthiest words in Hindi), and much more. I feel genuinely fortunate to be associated with him- proof that we do have superlative beings on this planet.

Blair, wherever you are, I wish you nothing but happiness. Hopefully your extension there isn't 6911.

Lots of love, and lots of courage to the family.

[Claudia]

Dearest Gina, Anabel, Cole, family, friends,

We are with all of you, feeling the sadness of Blair's passing. We trust that his now free spirit has left in each of us a reminder of how to live so gracefully in this world.
We feel blessed to have known him and offer you our support, at whatever level you need.
Un abrazote,
Claudia, Anna Sophia, Benjamin, Jon

[Jennifer N.]

We are absolutely heartbroken to hear the news.

But Blair has left behind such a strong legacy, as documented in his life, his family and the amazing comments on this blog.

We send our thoughts and prayers to Gina, Annabel, Cole and his entire family

[Jack]

Blair, RIP. Our lives are richer having known you. We're so sad, so sad today.

Our love goes out to Gina, Annabel and Cole.

Heartbroken.

Love, Julie and Jack

[Scott W]

I want to express my condolences. There's nothing more I can write at this time as I am too overcome with grief and disbelief.

[paolina]

my deepest sympathy and love to all of you. i have no words to express either my sadness nor my gratitude for having been blessed to have blair in my life.

much love,
paolina

[Helina and Dan]

Gina, Annabel, Cole, family, and friends

I can’t find words to express what Blair and his family meant for me and my family and nor would I even try to explain the lose Gina, Annabel, Cole, Alan, Jeannine, and the Renshawa’s are feeling. The only thing I can say is I am so sorry for your lose and share this short poem I found written by Shirley Ann Parkerson.

A Brother Lost

Lifted up on shattered wings
A broken soul my heart sings
Tears of sadness flow from my eyes
Nevermore to see blue skies

Lonely wandering throughout this town
Upon my heart I wear a frown
Sadly weeping for what is lost
Not a thought about the cost

A best friend gone from sight and sound
Must now speak to the cold ground
A brother forever but here no more
No one knows what lies in store

Leaving this world, not coming back
A person in whole, that is a fact
Smiles and laughter, not part of you now
Will see you again, someway, somehow

Quietly praying for some relief
Wanting to hide from all this grief
Easier knowing you’re with me always
Wanting to join you on the bad days

Blair, I miss the hugs, the laughter, and the cries we shared. At the end of the day you always said I love you Bro well it’s my turn to say I LOVE you Bro RIP my Brother

[Susana Fattorini (Mora)]

There are no words to express the immense sadness we feel. It's unbelievable and impossible that we'll never see Blair again. All these posts are so right! His smile lit up the room, his jokes and laughter made everyone feel great. His love for his family was always present and felt. He was incredibly loved at RPA, and respected, a rare combination.
You have all showed incredible strength through all this. We, as always, are standing by to help in any way you can imagine.

All our love. Susana and David

[Scott King]

I like many others was in denial that this day would come. In my heart I felt that Blair would recover and return to us and we would again be able to enjoy his wisdom and wit. Mr. Tipton amazingly described him as gravity. That he was. We are all better for knowing him and how he enriched our lives!

[Tim P.]

Blair,

As with many people I've crossed paths with in my life, the truly special ones have left footprints on my heart. And you, my friend, will live in my heart always...

Renshaw family,

While I feel that there is little I can do to alleviate the pain and sorrow of all this, please know that I am yet another addition to the army of supporters who stands ready to help in any way possible. I continue to pray that God puts his loving arms around you all and comforts you in the way that only He can.

[Brett B.]

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Renshaw family. I don't think I've ever met someone who was so universally liked, respected and appreciated as Blair. He was such a genuinely good person and will be truly missed.

[M'Lissa]

May you be surrounded by strength and love. You have been and continue to be in my thoughts.
M'Lissa

[Nancy, Peter, Gus and Nell]

Gina,
Sending you my love and sharing a heavy heart. I am so lucky to have known Blair for even a short time. Beso y abrazos.

[Marilyn Mclaughhlin]

Gina and family,
This is so sad I just can't believe it. Though we have been out of touch for a few years....time is meaningless, and you are dear to me as ever. My heart goes out to you....my hands when needed will follow. All my love, Marilyn

[Nina]

Such kind person,so funny and handsome, what a great Dad.It's just not fair.If there is anything at all I can do to help please let me know. Sending love your way.

[Lynn, Clyde and Aspen]

Good bye, Blair. Thanks for passing by this way. You will be missed.

***

To An Athlete Dying Young
A. E. Housman (1859)

The time you won your town the race
We chaired you through the market-place;
Man and boy stood cheering by,
And home we brought you shoulder-high.

To-day, the road all runners come,
Shoulder-high we bring you home,
And set you at your threshold down,
Townsman of a stiller town.

Smart lad, to slip betimes away
From fields where glory does not stay,
And early though the laurel grows
It withers quicker than the rose.

Eyes the shady night has shut
Cannot see the record cut,
And silence sounds no worse than cheers
After earth has stopped the ears:

Now you will not swell the rout
Of lads that wore their honours out,
Runners whom renown outran
And the name died before the man.

So set, before its echoes fade,
The fleet foot on the sill of shade,
And hold to the low lintel up
The still-defended challenge-cup.

And round that early-laurelled head
Will flock to gaze the strengthless dead,
And find unwithered on its curls
The garland briefer than a girl's.

[Danielle Thys]

Gina and all,

My heart is so heavy these days. My sister went through an experience similar to Blair's earlier this year and yet, came out the other side, healthy.

I really hoped that would be the outcome here and had been following this blog twice daily sending my best mojo until my dad's fatal plane crash Aug 19th, consumed my thoughts.

Given all that has happened, so unexpectedly and in such a short period of time, it's hard not to lose faith in the world. But to read the emails and postings from so many detailing the positive effect your beloved had in the world, you come to accept a beautiful, if difficult truth:

We are all here, all too briefly. The best we can hope for is to love and be loved in return.

Blair, your loving spirit was mirrored back to you a thousandfold. Rest in peace, dear man. I really wish there had been more time.

[Persis Karim]

To Gina and All of Blair's Family:

My most sincere condolences as you try to wrap your heads and hearts around your loss. I too knew Blair from our days at UCSC --- and remember his warmth and kindness.

He was too young to leave this world!
May you have many beautiful memories to sustain you in these difficult days ahead.
Peace, Persis Karim

[Jennifer Button]

To all of Blair's family, I am so shocked, saddened by and sorry for your terrible loss. Blair being gone seems neither real nor possible. I didn't know him that well but I do know that he was always the coolest guy around and had such a serene calm about him. It seemed like nothing could fluster him. And everything out of his mouth was either very funny or very wise. He was so smart, handsome, kind and gracious ....and happy - he had it all. He took the time (twice) at long AYSO committee meetings at his office to get my daughter all set up electronically so she could be entertained while she waited for me. Always so thoughtful and patient.

One image that will always stay with me..... last year at the JAMS soccer fields, I turned and saw Blair standing there holding hands with his lovely wife. He was smiling as he held Gina's hand watching his beautiful kids with so much pride. Remember Gina, Annabel and Cole, he will always be doing this. He is doing this now.

[Jennie T.]

My deepest condolences to the Renshaw family. Although I never had the chance to work directly with Blair, I know how much those in his department looked up to and respected him.

This past week, I also lost one of my best friends whom I loved dearly (a medic in the air force).

Heaven now has both a 24/7 medic and 24/7 IT support.

[Judy Accardi]

Dear Gina, Annabel, Cole
Dear Jeanine, John and family
Dear Renshaw family
My heart is heavy with love and sadness for all of you. I speak for myself but also for the Play Mountain community that has known and loved your family for so many years. We send love and the readiness to help in any way we can. Please know that we are holding you in our hearts. Even with this deep sadness I feel, when I think of Blair, I smile because that is how I always remember him.
Love, Judy

[Mike M.]

I'm so deeply saddened for your loss - and ours. Blair was a remarkable man...a true gentleman. His kindness, generosity, patience, sincerity, positivity, humor and courage were inspirational to all around him. May you find strength in the love around you to get through this...

[grace benn]

to all of blair's family ... there are no words ... good-bye blair ... your kindness, humor, love, and passion will live on in the hearts of all you touched during your too brief life ... i cherish the fact that i knew you ... and hope to pass along your spirit to others ...

we send our condolences to all ...

grace, alex, abby and cj benn

[Christy Sears]

Missing Blair. My heart is heavy with the loss. Gina, the Sears Family is praying for you and the kids. We're happy to be of service in any way. God Bless,

[Yael, Danny and Edan]

We are at a loss of word to express our sadness...we send our love to you all.
Yael, Danny and Edan

[Richarda Logacz]

Dear Jeannine, thank you for the update. I know it was a hard thing for you to do. I have checked on the status of Blair every day morning and night. Thinking of all of you and how hard you have all worked to take care of Blair. Gina, you are in my thoughts every day. Please stay strong and healthy so you can take care of Annabel and Cole. They are also a blessing. Alan thank you for everything you have done to help Blair and keep us all informed. When I opened this update this morning I couldn't bring my self to comment. My thoughts are overwhelming. Gina, Annabel, Cole, Alan, Jeannine and Renshaw Family My Husband and I will continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Take care and let me know if you need anything.
Richarda & Oliver

[www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=643060747]

Dearest Gina, Annabel, Cole and the whole Renshaw’s clan:
Our hearts are tremendously heavy with sorrow for the loss of our most beloved and admired Blair. We cannot find the words –nor in English, nor in Spanish, nor in any language– to express the profound sadness we feel. So many good times together, so many shared activities, so many good chats, so much love shared with our families, so many good memories, sounds, images, fragrances, foods, laughs, movies, plays, hugs, kisses, so many hopes, so many prayers, so many tears, so many, so much…
There is not a segment of our lives that has not been touched by you guys and by our beloved Blair…
As the poet M. Benedetti said… “You can count on us, not until two or three, simply count on us”…
Our deepest condolence, our deepest sorrow…
All our love to you…

Natalia, Sofía, Diana & Hermes

[Elaine]

Gina

my every thought is with you and your family right now

I just don't have any other words

Elaine

[Lynne Rose]

Dear Gina-

My thoughts and prayers have been and continue to be with you and the kids, all the Renshaws and your amazing and loving support team.

I hold you tight in my heavy heart, and send wishes for physical and spiritual strength, comfort and solace.

Peace to all and to the precious husband, father, son, brother, uncle and friend Blair. He has magically touched so many lives, and leaves in his path a beautiful and loving legacy.

With love,

Lynne Rose

[Lisette Cartusciello]

One kind, sweet, funny man who touched so many people and brought us all together, in our thoughts and prayers. Blair, rest in peace and know that we will keep you in our hearts for all time.
Gina and family, I'll keep you in my prayers.

Lisette

[Julie Boston]

Dearest Gina, Annabel, Cole and Family-
My deepest condolences go out to all of you at this very difficult time of overwhelming loss, sadness and grief. Blair brought us such wonderful gifts – the kind that teach you how to be a better human being. I count myself as one who learned so much from him.

I feel devastated to know I have lost him as a friend and co-worker, but so very grateful I got the chance to know him. He was gentle, but strong and serious yet hilarious, professional yet oh-so fun, and always understanding and ready to help and support people through every major (and minor) crisis. And so very generous – with his time, his sage advice and knowledge and most importantly, his friendship. There are so many things I’ll remember about him, among them the time I called him at home at 9:30pm when I locked myself out of my office after a class I was giving and how ready he was to jump in the car and come help me out (hopefully you don’t remember that).

His love for you was so apparent to all of us, and I felt honored to know you from afar through the pictures and loving stories he shared with me about his beloved family. He was so very proud of you, and we all admired his beautiful family. Although his body has left us, I know he still surrounds you and the rest of us with his love, everywhere and always.
You are in my thoughts. With love and sympathy, Julie

[baret]

Blair, I can see you in Jeannine's kitchen, your camera around your neck. It's Easter or Thanksgiving or Cookie Decorating Day or someone's birthday. You bend ever so slightly downward (not too much movement, you are way too cool for that) so that I might plant a kiss on your scruffy cheek. You and John tease one another. You teach me how to manage Jeannine's demands. You take a bite to eat and then go back outside to photograph the kids, the kids who adore their daddy and uncle.
It makes no sense that you are gone and it will never be the same without you. But your beautiful spirit will ALWAYS remain. You are an awesome husband, brother, son, father, uncle, friend... you are an awesome human being and you will live in our hearts forever.

[baret]

To Those Who Knew and Love Blair:
I am putting together a "Blair" book for his family. I would love to collect any stories or memories of Blair, so that years from now his children will have as many pieces of the beautiful Blair puzzle as possible.
I would also appreciate any photos of Blair that his family might not have seen.
Please email:
baretboisson@yahoo.com

Many thanks, Baret Boisson

[Lisa H.]

It is just so unthinkable that he is gone. We will forever look for Blair to appear in the hallways of RPA with his smile and witty comment that you can't wait to pass on to others. Gina, we know you and Annabel and Cole will keep his memory alive forever; please know that his RPA family will do the same...

[www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1410547526]

Oh my! How very sad and unbelievable! Blair will be sorely missed; his joy has been missed for weeks at RPA. My thoughts are with all of his loved ones.

[eileen dorn and michael wallenstein]

Oh gina! Our hearts are so heavy with sorrow for you and your family. I know they say the depth of our sorrow is the measure of our love, but that seems so inadequate. We send our love and our thoughts and our actions-whatever it is that you need in the weeks, months and years--we will be there.

[Louise Wainwright]

Oh, no...no. Blair, my friend and colleague, my confidante. I will miss you.

[Ray and Vera Smead]

All these words of praise and love for Blair and the love extended to the family represent our feelings too - we've lost a precious family member.

[steve]

"Blair was proud of me. That's all right."

Scott said it so much better than I ever could. Blair was proud of his family and every one of his friends. What an amazing, beautiful man who sets an incredibly high standard.

Blair, buddy... I miss you so much.

For Baret and anyone else who might want to look at some of the pictures I have of Blair, I have them stored here: http://www.flickr.com/photos/chicanerii/sets/72157622136010807/

[Shelley Eisner]

My thoughts go out to Blair's family. This is a very sad day. I will never forget you Blair and I was so lucky to know you.

with love,
Shelley

[Gary Paticoff]

I met Blair the first day he started at RPA. In all the time I knew him, he always had time to share a laugh and flash that Cheshire Cat smile of his. While I will truly miss him, it would have been a greater loss to have never met Blair. To his family whom he loved so much and spoke about so often, please accept my condolences. Today I said a final goodbye to a friend.

Gary

[sabine]

Our hearts are with all of you. We will deeply miss Blair.
Love,
Sabine and Ed

[Cathleen]

I loved the way that Blair always made you - nay, each of us - feel like there was no one more important at that particular moment. Because Blair never was too busy for you.

I loved the way that Blair never made you feel "dumb" for not knowing something - even if it was the same something that he had to help you with before. Because Blair was filled with the endless patience of respect for everyone.

I loved the way that Blair was a highlight of our days at RPA.

Because Blair was - will always be - a shining light.

It is just so deeply sad that we will now live with only his memory - and yet that very memory will enrich us, just as Blair himself did for all who knew him.
God Bless Blair's family. May he be at peace.
Signed, Miss Campe (I loved the way he called me that.)

[Jim Bernstein]

Dear Gina, We are so terribly sorry to hear this news. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Please know that we are thinking of you. Love, Jim and Abby

[Delia Lopez]

Dear Gina, Annabel, Cole and the Renshaw family:
Our hearts sank when we read the note that Blair had passed away. We send you our deepest and sincerest condolences. We continue to pray for you that you find the strength to surpass this and the joy in knowing that a beautiful person has left such an indelible mark in your lives, as he did with many. I'm sure today Blair is with you, and will continue to be. We will pray for Blair that he find peace and healing. We are here for you guys in any way possible, in any way you might need.
Much love and great big hugs for each and every one of you,
Delia Lopez and Carlos Bustos, Randy and Jordan Keen

[Sara Wasserstrom]

I read Jeannine's message today and it filled me with incredible sadness. I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I have tried all day to think of what to write and say but there really are no words. However, I send my love to all of you in his family as I find myself thinking about Blair and the fun and special times we shared so long ago. Love, Sara

[dayz]

It was an honor to know and get to work with Blair. He truly was "good people".

Peace and love to the Renshaw family and to anyone else Blair's beautiful soul touched.

We'll love & miss you much Friend.

[chris grabowski]

Dear Gina--what a shocking turn of events, particularly devastating after haveing so recently made contact with you and Blair again. Love and Strength to you and your family.
Love Chris

[Sabrina Eastwood]

Dear Gina,
I've been thinking about you and Blair and your family during the last few weeks. You even appeared in a dream several days ago... I woke up and just remembered seeing you.
Eileen passed on the news about Blair's death. How is it we humans have the strength to come through these experiences? Amazingly, we just do. May love and strength surround you and your family.
Take good care,
Sabrina

[Lisa Stessman]

So very hard to find the right words. I will continue to pray for strength and peace for us all.

[Terry Michaels]

Dear Gina, Annabel, Cole and the entire Renshaw family,

I have taken the time to read each and every note that has been left on this blog, and feel a sense of what each has written.

While it has been longer than 30 years since I have seen Blair, I have vivid memories of his long blond hair and his ready smile. I will pull out the class photos I have from SMASH and pass them along to Baret.

May Blair's children Anabel and Cole find some sense of understanding and peace as they go through each and every day. Your Daddy loved you so very, very much while on this earth, and please know that has not stopped in any way, if anything it will be even stronger now. May his precious wife Gina find comfort and peace as she goes through each and every day. May Blair's parents, his brother and sister find some sense of peace as they go through each and every day. May all of Blair's friends near and far find some sense of peace as we go through each and every day.

May his memory be for a blessing.

Shine on you crazy diamond.

[britt]

I am so very sorry for your loss. It was a pleasure to know him, and I will fondly remember his wit and warmth.

[Nora]

Dear Gina and Family,

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Blair was an incredibly bright, kind hearted person, and knowing and working with him made my own experience at RPA that much better. It was an honor and truely would not have been the same if I did not have to opportunity to get to know him. May your family stay strong as you have already through these times. May the love and memories of Blair continue to resonate in your hearts.

With warmest regards,

Nora

[David Impastato]

Dearest Gina and Alan -- It has been so long that I don't where to begin. I am so sad, and eternally sorry for not reaching out sooner. Blair's warmth and humanity is evident, and lives on, in all the people he touched. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, David

[Karen Smith]

Gina and family; as you share this time of sorrow may you draw strength from one another. Blair will never leave your heart, he is part of who you are, how you see the world and how you live.
What a beautiful difference one life made. Love, Karen

[Mary]

Gina, Annabel and Cole,
I am so sorry for your loss. Although I never had the opportunity to spend much time with Blair, everyone always had such kind words to say about him. I feel so luckly to have worked with you, Gina, and just to know you and your family. My parents and I are thinking of you.
Love,
Mary

[Dane Shoemaker]

Dear Gina, the children, Alan, Jeanine, the extended Renshaw clan:
The news of Blair's passing comes as a great shock. My heart goes out to you, to Blair, such a distinguished man in my mind, to your children, who have lost their father way too young. I, too, was such a child. Please let me know if and when I can help - I am here in LA.
Love to you all,
Dane Shoemaker

[jill boberg]

Gina, Anabel and Cole and the rest of Blair's family -

i was crushed a couple of days ago when i heard of Blair's death. I was so hoping for what everyone was hoping for - a reprieve. We will miss him, seeing him at school, the joke we always shared, the quick, sardonic grin as he teased. He was such a kind and generous guy, as well - always ready to help, to be there.

he will be sorely missed by all. but he has blessed all who have known him, and i consider myself lucky to be one of those people. he will live on in your hearts, and all of ours, and teach us all something about living.

good luck through this difficult period, and please let me know how i can help. i am absolutely available.

love to you all

Jill, Kai, and Drew

[Joby]

What a truly great human being we got to experience. I am grateful to have known Blair. He lifted up everyone at RPA—you just felt happier after being around Blair, even an email could do it. His way of being was so radiantly good. I believe that now unbounded by the physical self, he can spread that influence infinitely. Still it is very hard. Prayers and strong healing thoughts continue for the family.

[Kelly Fitzpatrick]

You know, I think I've typed 4-5 sentences and deleted them because it's just so uneasy to try to put condolences and words to bear.

Truly Blair was a fine friend to many, a comrade, an upright leader, great spirited, always smiling, kind, personable, and generous kid at heart. I, as we all, will miss him deeply. And I am so very sorry and in the greatest of sympathy for this tremendous loss. It was great to know Blair.

Blair - Thanks for all your help, friendship and Thanks for always saying hello.

[Christopher Jimenez y West]

One morning in the spring I was taking the back entrance to Edison and walked out with Blair. We had shared a couple of extended conversations about music, kids, clothing and I just had this impression of him as a man who was good folks.

Though I was rushing there was something about him that was different, he was pre - occupied and a bit distant so I asked what was up and we began to talk about his diagnosis, his near death experience as a child and his revelation of his illness on a weekend trip.

Most male interaction is b.s., posturing, ego games, etc. so I don't bother but Blair...his soul operates from a different space. And after we talked for an hour or so we hugged, tight, intimately and wished each other best and a good journey through the day.

His physical being is no longer with us and it is up to all of us to treasure our memories of him and remind each other of how he lead his life, to slow down, share intimately, laugh and wish each other a good journey.

I have thought often of that conversation and ask myself as a man do I have the courage to allow my soul to operate with the freedom and love that is Blair...

Gina, Anabel and Cole my family in I mourn for your loss and pray for you all individually and collectively peace as Blair continues on his journey

chris jimenez y west

[Lisa Pool-Osorio]

To comfort me my 10 year old reminded me "they always take the best people first." This is not always the case, but in Blair's case it is. I was one of the lucky people to grow up with him. I don't remember ever not knowing the Renshaws. I am very thankful for my paths that crossed his, as a child, a teen, and as parents. Please know that my family is there to support you in any way we can. You have been blessed to have him as a husband, father, brother and son, but you already know that. I am sure the love he had for you all will give you stength each day. Thank you to Steve for the pictures. Thanks to Gary for giving a name to that wonderful smile of his. That Cheshire Cat Smile will remain in my memory always. Love to you all!

[Kanako Kumaki]

My heart is heavy with sorrow.
Blair ...He was very sweet and very warm person...
I can't find the words... I just want to know my Love goes out to Gina ,Annabel,Cole
Love Kanako

[tasha constantino]

i am so sorry for blair's lose and i am very sorry. i cant imagen life without with my dad. stay strong.

tasha

[Bruce Kaplan]

In the mid 1990s, I had the fortune to work with Blair for four or five years at Mind over Macintosh. He was a trainer and consultant and he would be on and off with us, as he had outside projects in Hawaii. We were always so happy when he would return, and need the work! We knew we could send him anywhere to do anything. (It was our company that originally sent him into RPA).

He was fun to work with, smart, and had that wonderful self-deprecating wit. One time, he came to teach a class, wearing worn shoes with soles that had separated from the uppers. We made him give us the shoes, and had them sewn up while he taught the class in his socks. We all had a good laugh at the end of the day.

And even though I haven't seen him in more than a decade, he was the kind of person that left an indelible impression - "I wonder what Blair is up to?" When I reconnected with him on Facebook, just a few months ago, I was happy. And then the stroke and a few weeks of hop. When I read today he was gone, I was stunned. And so I can't imagine those of you who are close to him will bear this loss.

So long, Blair.

[H.Garcia]

Yesterday, I was driving and looking at all the people walking around on the streets and it was hard for me to understand that Blair was no longer with us. I was so blessed to have had a boss, teacher, and friend like him. His smile will be on my mind always.
Blair, you are an awesome person.

My condolences to all the Renshaw family.

HG.

[the Saltzmans]

Our hearts go out to you all...he will be missed and remembered.

[Tom Denne]

I've thought for so long what to say in this space about Blair, and everything I've come up with seems so inconsequential, but here goes . . . I had the privilege to have a cubicle across from his office when I first started at RPA, and I got to see firsthand just how wonderful a person he was. Not just as a colleague and manager (because he was absolutely amazing at both) but simply as a human being. My most cherished memory of him, and I can't even recall the circumstances, but I was over in the IS department for some reason several months ago, and Blair gave me a hug. Not just a guy "bump-thump-thump" hug, but a full-fledged, two-armed affectionate hug. That was Blair. His passion for life and everything in and around it was infectious, and every single time I was with him, I always left with a smile.

It's hard to smile now, because losing Blair leaves a void in my life and career, and an ache in my heart, but I see his face, I hear his laugh, and I can't help but smile. And for me, that'll always be how I remember him . . . with a smile.

[Karen Miller]

Our thoughts and hearts are with you all. Please know his kindness and generous laugh will be with us for a long time.

Karen, Rich & Emma

[Simone]

I have a lifetime of Blair memories; the Lattimer Canyon days, PMP, Mammoth ski trips, Santa Monica basketball, and a sweet dance with my daughter and Gina in May. These memories will never fade, nor the love, kindness, and welcome I always felt from Blair. I am so sad he is gone and all my love goes out to Gina, Anabel, Cole, and the Renshaws.

[Brooks Perry]

Blair,

You have been a great friend, a great leader and above all you have given us hope and inspired us to do good. You will be dearly missed, but your spirit will remain with us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Gina, Annabel, Cole and all your family.

Rest in peace,
Brooks & Connie

[Wendy S]

I read the news this morning, and my heart, thoughts and prayers go out to his family and close friends. Blair will be missed and remembered for being such a wonderful person to everybody he came across.

[Marco Fantone]

Everything I've read so far is so spot on about Blair and the special person that he was: "kid at heart", "Cheshire Cat grin" and yes, "a great leader".

It's really hard to put into words how you feel when someone like Blair suddenly leaves your world. I guess what's really hit me the hardest is that this happened to someone so close to me in age and mindset. When you have that big kid in you, you just don't expect these things to happen.

One great memory that will probably stay with me for a long time was a conversation Blair and I had in his office only a few months ago. He had been working to complete a small project for our department and we both joked about how little free time either of us had for anything that wasn't front burner material. Blair shot me an e-mail on 7/2 saying we were good to go.

To my fellow father, Honda Element owner and big kid at heart, I will truly miss you.

Marco Fantone

[Zap]

From an old roommate in Santa Cruz...Blair was a good person then and from all that I've read here, it was a good man he remained. My condolences. To the kids, it is so hard, but from a stranger, this is my advice - your dad is gone, but he will now be closer to you in a differnt way. He will come to you at any moment and though not physical, those are the moments to cherish & embrace going forward. All the best...and to you Blair - cheers.
Zap

[NiK]

Dear Gina,

I have no words of comfort. I have no wisdom to share. The only true asset I have is my heart... and it aches with yours right now. I met Blair on my first day here at RPA, almost 8 years ago. We attended "orientation" together and have been friends since. He always brought a smile to my face, a gift he has given to so many. His warmth and kindness embraced me and I haven't let go since. I will forever be grateful for the times we shared, the laughter, the drinks, the food and for making me an honorary member of the IS team. Never had I felt a belonging the way I felt with Blair and his team. Blair and I also shared lunch with his bff one day on set. It is a memory I shall never forget. Don't tell Ben but it was Blair who made it the most fun! ;)
Gina, you and I may not know each other but know that you have a friend in me if you ever need anything because my affection for Blair transfers to you, Cole and Annabel, always. Deepest condolences, love and light.

[Marie Z.]

Renshaw Family,
Since reading this update on Saturday morning, I have been stunned and unable to come up with words that could adequately express my deep sympathy. While we have never met, I (like so many others who have had the good fortune to know Blair) feel such a sense of loss right now. I cannot even begin to imagine what you all are going through.

Blair touched so many people. He made this world a better place. He has taught so many of us the value of patience and wit and respect and, of course, technology. He definitely had purpose while he was with us and will be in our hearts and spirit forever.

While it is hard to make sense of all this, I want to wish you all peace and comfort in knowing that Blair accomplished so much in the time he was with us (although way too short).

~Marie Z.

[Alex]

I didn't know Blair very well, but whenever we passed by each other in the office corridors he was very pleasant. His kindness and his positive spirit was always evident in the helpful IS team, his emails, and whenever he would speak to us at events. RPA was a better place with him.

My heart goes out to Blair's family and friends.

[Judy Brill]

Gina, Annabel, Cole,
There is a giant hole in the heart of RPA!

Blair will be missed beyond belief. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Charlene Nakamura]

Gina, Annabel and Cole, we are so sorry to hear about your loss. It is unfortunate for us that we did not have a chance to meet Blair but we got to know his lovely, wonderful children and his kind and generous wife. You have been and will continue to be in our hearts and prayers.

Love, Charlene and Gracie Fletcher

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We are deeply shocked and saddened by this tremendous loss to Blair's family and friends. To me, personally, Blair was a cat I always figured I'd know when we both got old..sitting on the porch drinking, re-introducing our kids and bragging about their accomplishments. I had placed him in a jewel box to be cherished later, and that's my bad. Because this planning shit never works out. We are all now remembering our past with Blair, but I am also missing our future with him. I am missing him now but I will be missing him even more later. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you. Liz believes in heaven and she knows that Blair is in a place that is filled with as much love as when he was here on earth. Peace be with all of you.
McCrae, Liz & Sophia